Right now someone you haven’t met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you.
Finding love is a combination of many things, sometimes it is caused by random circumstance, and sometimes it is a product of a longtime friendship between two individuals. Just know that if you are looking for love chances are there is someone out there who is very compatible with you that is looking for love as well. In order to best pursue love, one should be willing to put in the effort to find it.
Doing things that allow for you to be in social situations that will help you to meet people is probably one of the most efficient tasks that you can do in order to most effectively you obtain a love interest. Never give up on love, though at times we may think that we will never find love, if we just keep a positive attitude and keep our eyes and hearts open, love will find us.
With the emergence of social networking sites like Facebook, and the vast uprising of personal blogs and other types of internet technologies, it is now easier than ever to voice opinions and other types of propaganda, and be heard/seen by more people than ever before. A lot of people are using these new gateways to reach people and spew hate in the form of bullying one another, starting hate groups, and even terrorist organizations. Why not use these new technologies to spread more love, and to get to know one another on a deeper personal level in order to better understand and tolerate each other?
Life is too short to be angry and to spread anger and hate. We must love while we live as much as we can. We must look out for those who are less fortunate than us. We must spread waters of peace over blazing fires full of anger, dreadfulness and war. We must spread more love than there is hate in this world!
“No Lies, Just Love”
As we go through relationships sometimes they fail, and sometimes they last forever. In order to love fully, and in order to love effectively we must love without worrying about regretting how it may make us feel later on in life. Some of us choose to put up walls and try to pursue relationships with another person halfheartedly. Trying to keep a relationship afloat with only half of a heart in it, is comparable to trying to live with only half of a heart, pretty much impossible to do. On top of that, would you want someone to only love you with half of themselves when you know that you are giving them your all? You surely wouldn’t. Sometimes we just have to kick back, and let all of our walls protecting our hearts down, and choose to love someone when we know deep inside that it is right for us.
“Just keep in mind: there are still billions of people left in the world that could make you even happier.”
I’m sure we have all heard the saying there are plenty of fish in the sea, and even though we may have our minds stuck on someone else, we have to realize that maybe letting someone go is for the best. Sure it will take a while to get over someone that you devoted a lot of your time, love, and efforts to but it may be for the best. Most times when someone or something ends out of your control it is because you are destined for something or someone greater.
Don’t limit your mind by thinking that the only person that will be able to make you happy is the person that you were last with, because that is simply just not true. This earth is full of billions of people and if you think that someone else better suited for you isn’t out there, then you are sadly mistaken. Be open to trying new things, meeting new people, and letting the old things of the past go.
The difference between ‘like’, ‘love’ and ‘in love’ is the same difference between ‘for now’, ‘for awhile’ and ‘forever’.
It is hard for many people to understand the difference between really liking someone, loving someone, and being in love with someone. When we like someone, we are only thinking about the here and now, our feelings are mild for a person but usually aren’t overwhelming.
When we have love for someone we have a respect and admiration for them, we may not be interested in them romantically, but we are concerned for their well being at all times, and will drop anything to be there for them in a minute. When we are in love with someone, we go to sleep with them on our minds, and we wake up with them on our minds as well. Our hearts beat a bit faster when we first see them, and we want to spend every waking moment with them for the rest of our lives!
“Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world. But rather, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.”
A few of us may have heard the quote “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. This is a deeper quote than most of us realize, because everyone has a unique opinion of almost everything in the world, whether we choose to concede to our feelings is simply our choice. It is easy to love someone that a majority of society will perceive as beautiful, the real dispute lies in choosing someone that you know in your heart you see as beautiful despite what society says.
Choosing the right person to be with is a process that takes a lot of heart, strength, and courageousness from both parties, because the person you may choose, or the person who chooses you may not be the most politically correct partner. When we are choosing a partner, it is important to choose a person for their heart, not their strapping good looks, or enormous bank account. As looks fade, and money comes and goes, a person’s soul never leaves them, and at the end of a bad day or a good day, they will always be who they are at heart.
I trust you. I know you will never let me fall.
Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us.
When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.